Sugar dating has grown in popularity over the last decade, especially in Europe. More and more people are embracing this lifestyle, either because it suits their current needs or simply out of curiosity. For those unfamiliar with the concept, sugar dating involves a relationship where a successful and typically older man (sugar daddy) or woman (sugar mama) dates an attractive, often younger person, referred to as a sugar baby or boy toy. This type of relationship is based on mutual attraction, chemistry, respect, pampering, and mentorship. The only website in Bulgaria that offers a virtual space for finding others interested in sugar dating is Sugardaters.
Over 240 Scandinavian Sugar Babes have happily filled out a survey on the leading sugar dating website in Scandinavia, SugarDaters. Sugar Babes from Norway, Sweden, and Denmark have shared their ultimate advice for newcomers to this exciting type of dating. As summer approaches and people would meet easier in person, this guidance is timely and valuable.
Insights from Experienced Sugar Babes
Denmark
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Have a chemistry meeting before agreeing to any form of relationship.
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Don't compromise your rules. Focus on meaningful communication rather than short messages asking if you're up for fun. It’s the mature, older men who are serious will give you what you need.
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Don't just do it for money or gifts. Ensure you can look yourself in the eyes ten years from now. Only meet people who will respect your boundaries and to whom you feel attracted.
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Don’t agree to anything you wouldn’t do in regular dating.
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Be patient and keep looking for the right person; there are many "rotten apples" out there.
Sweden
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Be kind, always.
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Be clear about your boundaries, what you want, and what you're comfortable with. Communicate and stand your ground. Remember, "The answer is never no; you're just asking the wrong person."
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Don't let anyone make you feel like you owe them anything. This lifestyle is fun and full of exciting opportunities as long as you make your intentions clear and maintain your integrity.
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Do NOT meet a sugar daddy if you feel uncomfortable. You deserve to be spoiled in every way, including sexually, if that’s what you want. Don't let anyone push your limits; respect is paramount.
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If it sounds too good to be true, it probably is. Avoid potentially dangerous situations.
Norway
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Take your time and make a trustworthy connection before making any decisions.
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Ensure your safety at all times. Trust your gut and always let someone know where you are. Meet your date in public.
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It's okay to say no (even after you’ve said yes) if you feel uncomfortable or changed your mind.
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If it doesn’t feel right, it isn’t right. Don’t waste your time on men who bore you or don’t make you feel amazing.
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Be yourself and enjoy the experience.
Words from the Public Relations Manager of SugarDaters.com
“SugarDaters has seen a significant increase in Bulgaria since we began our expansion efforts there. We believe these pieces of advice serve as great sources of inspiration and reminders for those who are lining up dates and are now ready to meet in person. Dating in person is different from dating virtually and requires a few safety precautions, regardless of the platform where you met your date,” says Alexandra Olariu, the SugarDaters Public Relations Manager.
These insights from experienced Scandinavian Sugar Babes highlight the importance of respect, safety, and clear communication in successful sugar dating relationships.